Trying To Rest

So on Monday I had another wonderful doctors appointment and I was told that I should try and go on bedrest. The doctor said it would be really good and help make sure that I wont have another premature baby.I was like are you serious everything would fall apart if I went on bedrest. I have so much on my plate right now I cant go on bed rest I have to take care of my son the dogs, look for houses, pack since we have to move in like 2 months, clean and so much more. So I have been trying to take it easy the last few days its been much easier on me but I know it is all just piling up for me to do anyways. You would think that since my brother was here that it would be easier but its not he doesnt do anything other than make a mess and spoil James. Now I have another person to clean up after and it is just driving me crazy because no matter what I do its still a mess. I just wish that he would try harder to find a job or school or just go back home since he isnt doing anything other than playing an online game. Im trying not to stress myself out with all of this but it is hard I just dont want this baby to be earlier too. Im only 3 weeks away from when I had James and Im so worried that Im going to have Christopher early too. I just wish that I could rest like the doctor told me because then I would be worried about having Chris early. So I decided that Im not doing anything for the rest of this week other than maybe cook dinner and play with James.